*Those Who Feel They’re Always Right*

Having lived 3decades and met different kinds of people in life, I’m particular about this type that think they are always right. They will definitely beat your imagination and keep you wondering where their sense of humour lies and whether they should be categorised as sensible human beings…….
These individuals will never admit a wrong doing because they think they’re more Exposed, Educated and Experienced than others. Yes!!!they will never allow words like “I’m sorry”, “don’t be offended”, “I admit” et cetera to come out of their mouth because they think they are perfect in their DREAMLAND. 

But seriously, how can one be so comfortable at wanting to prove others wrong at the slightest opportunity they get? What do you stand to gain? How can a sensible person think that he or she is always right? In all situations they’re never wrong, really??? They’ll always find a way to twist a matter to their favour just to escape being held responsible for their actions or words. 

These kinds of people say the most stupid and nasty kinds of joke to others but will never take such from anybody and when you try to confront them on how nasty their jokes or words are, they quickly turn the table to lay the blame game on you. They think it’s smartness whereas it’s stupidity.

If you are in this group, wake up and smell the cappucino!!! No man is an island of knowledge and life itself is a school you never graduate from because you’d continue to learn until death.

Admitting you’re wrong makes you honourable, responsible and attest to the fact that you’re a person of strong character. It makes you stand out amidst others. It tells how noble you are. 

On the other hand, those who make others feel worthless, dishes out nasty jokes against others, those who will never admit they’re wrong etc are the weakest kind of human beings. Above all, they have little or no worth…neither do they have morals. 

People should learn to avoid them like a PLAGUE…..

Happy Sunday family

Happy Eid-El-Fitr to our Muslim brothers & sisters😊😍🙅.

**Love! Love! Love!**

It comes when you least expect it…and from where you never imagined😊
It comes in your darkest moment to light up your world

It sees no wrong

It does things extraordinarily 

Love gives most times

It builds you up

It understands

It stands by you through thick and thin 

It fills you up to the point where you lack absolutely nothing

Love does not envy! 

It seeks to always make peace 

Love will never leave you the way it met you 

It brings joy, excitement and long lasting happiness 

Love conquers all 

True Love is the greatest! 

#VivyChy 

#TrueLoveAmbassador

**Love! Love! Love!**

It comes when you least expect it…and from where you never imagined😊

Love conquers all

It sees no wrong

It does things extraordinarily 

Love gives most times

It builds you up

It understands  

It fills you up to the point where you lack absolutely nothing

Love does not envy! 

It seeks to always make peace 

Love will never leave you the way it met you 

It brings joy, excitement and long lasting happiness 

True Love is the greatest! 

#VivyChy 

#TrueLoveAmbassador

**Definition of Democracy and the Importance of Listening**

As we all know that Democracy is simply defined as government of the people, by the people and for the people (Abraham Lincoln). Meaning governance is all about the people. The people have a greater part to play in structuring the government and strengthening the affairs of our leaders. 
Nigeria need not just visionary and patriotic leaders but also great LISTENERS, who do not just listen to the cry of the masses but are willing to act accordingly. Our leaders can only exhibit TRUE Leadership by listening to those who agree with them, those who challenge them, stretch and even confront them…and not the other way round – trying to shut them up.

If as a leader you learn to differentiate between those who want your success and/or your failure, good, bad etc then, you’ll of a truth make a great leader. Learn to listen beyond their words and listen with your heart and your ears. Listening is all about ACTION. Listening to act is the secret key to leadership. It brings about CHANGE. 

Leaders who are always judging, laying blames on who did this and that don’t have the ability to listen. And you’ll very quickly shut people up and would deny yourself the opportunity to gain or learn from great minds. People will be extremely committed and engaged with you when they know and believe you will  act accordingly on what they’ve said.

If majority of the public is saying the same thing about your government or leadership, then something is obviously wrong somewhere. You need to pay more attention to what the people are saying, how they feel, as your governance solely is of them, by them and for them.

#HappyDemocracyDayOnceAgaintoUsall

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Happy Democracy Day Friends😊🙅

It’s a new dawn for Nigeria and Nigerians. 

As it’s said “CHANGE is a constant thing” and no matter how we embrace or deny it, it is the truth. Although change is indeed very needful at every stage of our lives, it is not an easy process. Let us be reassured and encouraged that at the end of it all, we’ll enjoy the great CHANGE God has in store for us😊.

I see a new Nigeria…I see God turning around every sector of our economy for good.

Long live Nigeria.

Happy Democracy Day to us All😊😍🙅.

​**Who you Should not Marry **

God is interested in the marriage of His children. This is why He has outlined certain rules that you must follow so that you will not partake of the sorrows and woes that befall the disobedient. Many times, singles ask questions on how to know God’s will in marriage and how to know who to marry. One good way to know who to marry is first to know who not to marry.
The first commandment of God is that you should never marry an unbeliever. Child of God, don’t marry the child of the devil so that you will not have the devil as your father-in-law. Anyone that Jesus Christ is not the Lord of his/her life is not yours to marry.  Whether the person is a staunch unbeliever or an unbeliever-church-goer, just stay away from anyone whose salvation experience is not sure and evidential.

You should not marry a person who doesn’t have a church that he/she belongs to. Even if he claims to be born-again and ardently follows television preachers, don’t marry him. A man/woman who has no local church but only follows online and television preachers will give you untold problems. If you marry him/her, you will realise that in the day of trouble, there is no authority that he/she is answerable to. The television preacher doesn’t even know both of you exist, so you cannot reach him when you need a counsellor for your affairs.  

A lot of so-called Christians do not believe in accountability to a local church or pastor, they only watch religious channels and claim they are born again; don’t commit your future to them. Don’t make that mistake of tying your life to a man/woman without an authority over his/her life. He/she will soon become a law to him/herself and all you will be able to do is cry. Crying will not be your portion, in Jesus’ name.

The way out is to obey now and stay away from a person who is not answerable to a church or pastor over his life.Don’t marry someone who doesn’t do anything in the church where he belongs. Here is someone who comes to church, but does nothing whatsoever as a contribution to the church, then he/she corners you unknown to the church  and wants to marry you; don’t marry him/her. You are to marry someone who loves and has passion for God. Nominal church members don’t show passion for God.  So the man/woman who comes to church for years, no one knows him/her, doesn’t do anything and when the church service ends is already out before anybody is not a marriage material. The reason is that such a lifestyle doesn’t denote a sense of responsibility. You need to marry a responsible husband/wife and a person who will be responsible at home will be responsible in the church. 

By Pst Edah 

My Views

Not all the so-called church workers, who are accountable to their pastors or head of departments are good enough for one to enter into a relationship with let alone talk about marriage. Most of them hide under the pretense of church departments/groups to commit havoc. 

You will be surprised to see the kind of moves some guys who appear to be loyal, tongue speaking, with a sanctimonious (holy) look make. You will also be astonished at their requests, behaviour…how suddenly he or she would want to have sex with you.I bet you won’t believe is the same brother or sister in the Lord…😉😊

The truth is that I’ve heard stories of those who married the so-called unaccountable guys/ladies in churches and at the end they turned out to make better and good husbands/wives. 

In fact, I’ve seen those who met at the club, eateries, etc and married themselves having good marriages. 

Moreover, I think to an extent some so-called church goers aren’t like that because they love to be, but simply because their work does not allow them to participate actively in church departments. So, they rather prefer to just go to church on service days. 

A fermous preacher once said and I quote “there’s something worse than being single – marrying the wrong person”. Meaning, he or she can be committed in church, be the favorite of his or her pastor but yet a wife beater, unable to submit to her husband etc. 

Another thing is the fact that most times when you meet someone they might not actually look like it…but after a while they’ll become ‘it’ and even surpass your expectations. 

Please, don’t get it twisted, I am not justifying any one, method or standards, meeting venues etc that must be adopted in order to meet someone and or to know who to marry. 

In my opinion, I think you should first know who you are, your values, strength and weaknesses, what works for you, what type of man or woman that would compliment you to bring out your best, what you can or cannot tolerate, etc before deciding on who to marry. 

I must add this, you should also work on yourself to become the best woman or man you would love to marry. What I mean is this, many at times we find ourselves saying things like, I want to marry a God-fearing man or woman, I want to marry a romantic, caring, loving, attention-giver etc kind of man or woman, when you are the very opposite of who you desire to be with. It doesn’t work that way friends.

When you have resolved all of these, then it will become very clear on who you should or should not marry. 
#evaluateallteachings

#knowwhatyouwant

#shineyoureyes

#marryyourbestfriend

#understudyyourselves

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**Forgiveness**

There are different kinds of people on planet earth regarding forgiveness – 
*those who would give you logical reasons why they’re not at fault so why should they forgive 

*those who would want to continually massage their egos hence there’s no need for them to forgive first 

*those who pride themselves in the number of years or how long they held someone in their hearts 

*those who say I am older than him or her so why should I forgive…

For me, I don’t see anything or anyone worth holding in my heart… My heart is rather too fragile to be messing around with in being unforgiving. 

No matter how we’re hurting, we’ve got to try to let go. We should entertain no room in our heart for malice, grudges etc…it can only wear one down and have nothing good to offer. As a matter of fact, we cannot receive from God with an unforgiving heart. So why risk our blessing on the altar of grudges…? Nowhere! Never! We shouldn’t take such risk at all. 

Always remember that our willingness to forgive those who have wronged us is a proof of maturity. It’s also a proof of strong character. 

It pays to forgive as frequent as possible!

#HavingaForgivingHeartistheBest

#SaynotoMalice

#HaveaHeartthat’sreadytoreceivefromGod

#I’maStrongWoman

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